We like to say that opinions of others don’t matter and that the only opinion that matters is our own. We like to believe that the only way someone else’s opinion will effect us is if we LET IT. I wish to challenge that for a moment.
While our own opinions of ourselved are very important, and “YES” we should be selective about who’s opinions we accept in our lives, we are not COMPLETELY EVER unaffected by opinions of others at any given time in our lives.
Opinions and words are ENERGY… they carry their own vibrations and travel through time, space and distance. You don’t need to KNOW someone’s opinions to be effected by them. Negative energy directed at you (even if you are oblivious to it) can actually make you sick just like Positive energy can Heal the world. We have all seen this in action very recently in the World effort to heal Japan by channeling Positive Energy Globally.
No matter how strong and resilliant we think we are, we will grow and evolve differently in environments guided by different opinions. If we survive in environment where we are valued, looked up to, praised, complimented, heard and loved we will continue to flourish and blossom at a much faster rate.
However, if we are constantly dismissed, disregarded, belittled and unaccepted, this would seriously hinder our evolution, no matter how much we repeat to ourselves that we are worthy… The fact that we believe that we are worthy will only make a difference in whether we will continue trying to live the best we can or shrivel up and die.
You don’t have to take my word for this. There is a way to SEE the results and effects that word and opinions carry.
Conduct your own experiment! Place two similar jars, filled with equal amount of the same brand cooked rice in different parts of your home. Make sure that both areas have the same environmental conditions. Place a label “LOVE” on jar #1 and a label “HATE” on jar #2.
For the next 2-4 weeks each time you pass jar #1 stop, smile and say “You are beautiful! I love you! You are smart!” and any other positive comments that would make YOU feel good.
However, each time yo pass jar #2 stop, make an angry face and say “I hate you! You are stupid! You have no value!” etc.
At the end of experiment’s time frame look closely at the rice in the jar that was “Loved” and compare it to the rice in the jar that was “Hated”. You may be surprised at what you see.
If we believe that all in this Universe is made of the same matter and that we are all connected, when we see that words, opinions and intentions can effect rice, than wouldn’t it make sense that they also effect as in the same manner?
So next time we make a claim that we treat everyone equally, that we spread love, that we don’t care about other’s opinions about us, we should stop and analyze the authenticity of our claim? Do we truly treat everyone in our lives with the same love and respect with which we wish to be treated? Do we honestly have the same opinion about everyone that touches our lives? And finally, are we truly UNEFFECTED by the opinions of others?
I invite you to do this… Next time you make a claim that you love and treat everyone equally and that it’s another person’s fault if they let opinions of others effect them, think hard about someone in your life that for a while now you have been dismissing, avoiding or forgetting, notice how you feel about that person when you are thinking of them, than,,, despite of your feelings… reach out, call them and tell them that they are IMPORTANT and LOVED, and that they MATTER! See how quickly they will shift from a negative to a positive, and than see if you still believe that we, at any level of our development, are completely immune to and free of opinions of others.
To see this experiment in action, you may go to this link:








